IFS Dating & Matchmaking

I help people have better relationships with themselves — so they can enjoy better relationships with others.

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Do you feel helpless in not knowing how to meet your person, hopeless about ever having a long-term relationship, or regret how you've shown up in dating?

Are you ready to end dating burnout? And to find someone vetted — as well as truly compatible with you?

Are you feeling exasperated by dating experiences with people who aren’t compatible with you, aggravated by dating apps, and saddened by not having been able to connect with those you thought were your person?

Every Connection begins with an Inquiry

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IFS Guest List

The IFS Guest List is my confidential registry for individuals who want to explore potentially being matched with my IFS Matchmaking clients.

IFS Relationship 1:1 Blueprint

If you need deeper support before, during, or after IFS Matchmaking, my IFS Relationship Readiness 1:1 Blueprint uses a proprietary methodology and it is the only framework that synthesizes Intimacy from the Inside Out (IFIO), Financial Psychology, and Internal Family Systems (IFS).

Here we build the relationship within you, so you can sustain a high-level partnership with another.

Together, we map the floor plan of your internal system to ensure your future relationship is built not on old patterns in which you are stuck, yet instead a foundation of clarity.

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IFS Matchmaking

The IFS Matchmaking Consultation is an opportunity for you to ask questions, feel really heard about your relationship history, your current struggles, as well your needs and wants in a relationship going forward.

During the consultation, I can help you identify patterns, such as getting in your own way on dates, and help you show up differently from now on.

If we agree the IFS Matchmaking service is right for you, we can then explore which package is best for you.

"Kristine is a delight to work with who possesses a powerful insight into the mind."

- Bill Liao | SOSV Global Venture Capital

How IFS Dating & Matchmaking Works

Identify Your Parts

Understand which parts show up in your dating experiences and what triggers them

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Develop Self-Leadership

Learn to lead with clarity, confidence, and curiosity instead of reactive patterns

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Transform Your Dating

Stop wasting time and show up differently on dates with role-playing and support

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Find Compatible Matches

Connect with others who are also becoming more Self-led in their journey

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