Services
With IFS Dating & Matchmaking, we help you have better relationships with yourself — so you can have better relationships with others.
IFS Dating Pool
Free
The IFS Dating Pool is our confidential registry for individuals open to being matched with IFS Matchmaking clients.
Being on the list means your profile is reviewed whenever a match is being considered for one of our active IFS Matchmaking clients. If you're a potential fit, we'll reach out directly.
The IFS Dating Pool is the simplest way to gain visibility within our professional network — no fee, no commitment, just the possibility of being introduced when the right match comes along.
IFS Relational Wealth
$250.00
The IFS The Relational Wealth service is an opportunity for us to explore how you may be getting in your own way before, during, or after dates — and to help you show up instead with confidence, clarity, and ease.
Unlike dating coaching, we work from the inside. We assess dimensions that shape your relationship patterns: your parts’ attachment (inside and out), emotional regulation, limiting beliefs, limiting beliefs about money, and self-awareness.
From there, we map which parts show up in your current dating patterns, which parts showed up in past relationships, and what working IFS Relational Wealth packages could mean for your life six months from now.
Each 45-minute session (with packages available) helps you build a relationship with these parts — so you can learn to speak for them rather than from them —and therefore increasing the likelihood that your unmet needs will be recognized and met enthusiastically by a compatible partner.
Relational Wealth draws on my clinical training in IFIO Couples Therapy, IFS Individual Therapy, and Nonviolent Communication. Where deeper healing work is needed, I'll refer you to a therapist when necessary.
IFS Relational Wealth Service
$250
The IFS The Relational Wealth service is an opportunity for us to explore how you may be getting in your own way before, during, or after dates — and to help you show up instead with confidence, clarity, and ease.
Unlike dating coaching, we work from the inside. We assess dimensions that shape your relationship patterns: your parts’ attachment (inside and out), emotional regulation, limiting beliefs, limiting beliefs about money, and self-awareness.
From there, we map which parts show up in your current dating patterns, which parts showed up in past relationships, and what working IFS Relational Wealth packages could mean for your life six months from now.
Each 45-minute session (with packages available) helps you build a relationship with these parts — so you can learn to speak for them rather than from them —and therefore increasing the likelihood that your unmet needs will be recognized and met enthusiastically by a compatible partner.
Relational Wealth draws on my clinical training in IFIO Couples Therapy, IFS Individual Therapy, and Nonviolent Communication. Where deeper healing work is needed, I'll refer you to a therapist when necessary.
IFS Matchmaking Consultation
$150
During this 45 minute consultation, we can help you identify patterns (such as getting in your own way in dating) as well as start to help you show up differently from now on, and with a tentative plan.
For clients who are interested in deepening their plan, this may also include some of the same parts-discerning work via the IFS Relational Wealth service.
If we agree the IFS Matchmaking service is right for you, we can then explore which package is best for you — based on your needs and desires.
IFS Matchmaking Consultation
$150.00
During this 45 minute consultation, we can help you identify patterns (such as getting in your own way in dating) as well as start to help you show up differently from now on, and with a tentative plan.
For clients who are interested in deepening their plan, this may also include some of the same parts-discerning work via the IFS Relational Wealth service.
If we agree the IFS Matchmaking service is right for you, we can then explore which package is best for you — based on your needs and desires.
IFS Solid Ground
$275.00
Once I match you and your beloved, I'm here for continued support in building your emotional home together on solid ground.
My experience as an IFIO Couples Therapist has shown me that couples often wait too long to seek help — by the time they do, they're already entrenched in painful dynamics that take time to unravel before they can talk and listen to each other differently.
Solid Ground can help you stave off emotional and financial difficulties before they take hold:
Communicate emotional and financial issues before they fester
Identify your parts' money scripts, and how flexible they are, to avert financial incompatibility
Prevent the loss of spark
Clarify whether and how your mutual needs are being met
Notice and respond to bids for connection, with better timing
Catch conflict early, before it becomes "that thing we do"
Regulate your parts' nervous systems when activated with your partner
Practice resolving conflict in a Self-led way
Learn how a repair differs from an apology, and practice it before you need it
The $275 fee covers a one-time, 45-minute session. Package discounts are available for periodic check-ins or regular ongoing meetings, if that better fits your needs.
IFS Solid Ground
$275 per session
Once I match you and your beloved, I'm here for continued support in building your emotional home together on solid ground.
My experience as an IFIO Couples Therapist has shown me that couples often wait too long to seek help — by the time they do, they're already entrenched in painful dynamics that take time to unravel before they can talk and listen to each other differently.
Solid Ground can help you stave off emotional and financial difficulties before they take hold:
Communicate emotional and financial issues before they fester
Identify your parts' money scripts, and how flexible they are, to avert financial incompatibility
Prevent the loss of spark
Clarify whether and how your mutual needs are being met
Notice and respond to bids for connection, with better timing
Catch conflict early, before it becomes "that thing we do"
Regulate your parts' nervous systems when activated with your partner
Practice resolving conflict in a Self-led way
Learn how a repair differs from an apology, and practice it before you need it